The Binary Fallacy

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
-Robert Frost, The Road Not Taken

Binary Thinking is the process of thinking of things in terms of two opposites. You can either do A or it's opposite B. But that's it. In Neuro-Linguistic Programming, it's a technique for manipulating someone into making the decision you want by framing the choice as a matter of either the thing you want them to do or the opposite, presented as a harmful choice. In Cognitive Behavioral Therapy it's a pattern to be broken to help people gain more control over their lives. In Software Architecture it's a warning sign.



If stuck between two different ways of designing something, the answer is always door number three.

Why do humans think like this? Why didn't Frost just keep walking straight through the woods and not worry about the roads? Why didn't The Clash stop worrying about staying and going and just Rock the Casbah? I don't really know. I'm not a psychologist. I'm just a software architect who's familiar with Analysis Paralysis. The phenomenon of getting nothing whatsoever done because you're locked up in the decision making process. And after years of trying to figure out how to avoid this, I came to one inescapable conclusion.

When you're in analysis paralysis it's because every path you're considering is wrong

In my opinion, this happens when you realize deep down that you're looking at the problem wrong and considering bad options. You can't decide because you know your options are both bad.

So what do you do? Well, that's the tricky part and adages about in which part of the box to think aren't as helpful as people who use them think they are. If thinking of something new was as easy as the realization that we need something new then Elon Musk wouldn't be quite the icon he's become. The important question is HOW? First, you just need to stop and accept the fact that you need to come up with something different. Your first decisions were wrong and you need to set them aside. Don't go back to them. Then I recommend you look at the great Stoic thinkers. You start by asking "What is this and what is it for?" I often tell developers to answer those two questions for every application, for every class they build, for every database and table they create. And you don't build the thing in question until you can answer those questions.

Then you ask if a thing is needed or just wanted. If it's not something you need, based on the answers to the above questions, then you leave it out. You strip away the irrelevant. Often I find myself locked up because I can't find a clean way of integrating the irrelevant into my design. Once I stop and realize the piece that doesn't fit doesn't need to fit, things get easier.

I've often said that software development is 90% thinking and 10% typing. If you understand how to think clearly, how to organize your thoughts, and how to tell the difference between the necessary and the unnecessary then there's little that can keep you from being a great software developer.